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Trois collègues hommes discutent quelque part, loin, très loin d’ici.

P : Hé, regarde, c’est Jean-Mi! Salut Jean-Mi! Alors, ce voyage d’affaires?

JM : Je veux pas en parler…

P : À ce point là?

JM : Ça s’est passé exactement comme on pouvait l’imaginer : j’ai passé deux jours à…

Idris Elba for Details, Septembar 2014 Issue by Mark Seliger

Ho ho ho

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We were grabbing a bite of lunch at a small cafe, in a mall, right across from a booth that sold jewelry and where ears could be pierced for a fee. A mother approaches with a little girl of six or seven years old. The little girl is clearly stating that she doesn’t want her ears pierced, that’s she’s afraid of how much it will hurt, that she doesn’t like earrings much in the first place. Her protests, her clear ‘no’ is simply not heard. The mother and two other women, who work the booth, begin chatting and trying to engage the little girl in picking out a pair of earrings. She has to wear a particular kind when the piercing is first done but she could pick out a fun pair for later.

"I don’t want my ears pierced."

"I don’t want any earrings."

The three adults glance at each other conspiratorially and now the pressure really begins. She will look so nice, all the other girls she knows wear earrings, the pain isn’t bad.

She, the child, sees what’s coming and starts crying. As the adults up the volume so does she, she’s crying and emitting a low wail at the same time. “I DON’T WANT MY EARS PIERCED.”

Her mother leans down and speaks to her, quietly but strongly, the only words we could hear were ‘… embarrassing me.’

We heard, then, two small screams, when the ears were pierced.

Little children learn early and often that ‘no doesn’t mean no.’

Little children learn early that no one will stand with them, even the two old men looking horrified at the events from the cafeteria.

Little girls learn early and often that their will is not their own.

No means no, yeah, right.

Most often, for kids and others without power, ”no means force.”

from "No Means Force" at Dave Hingsburger’s blog.

This is important. It doesn’t just apply to little girls and other children, though it often begins there.

For the marginalized, our “no’s” are discounted as frivolous protests, rebelliousness, or anger issues, or we don’t know what we’re talking about, or we don’t understand what’s happening.

When “no means force” we become afraid to say no.

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BJZT and I lived the same thing at Claire’s friday… and the kid wasn’t even 2 yo… v_v

And the day she will eventually want a tatoo per exemple, this will be a Fuck “NO”, right?

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Ça y est les filles, je crois qu’on a l’attention de tout le monde pour cinq petites minutes. C’est le moment.

C’est le moment de toutes se mettre d’accord. En public, devant témoins.

Parce que si #YesAllWomen, si ça nous arrive à toutes, si chaque femme a, à son niveau, une expérience à…

Long time without news he! XD

I think I’m starting to love copics.

Will try copic on this one! Wish me Luck!

With my BFF we’re actually doing a Potterathon so…


I want a friendship like this.



I want a friendship like this.


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but wait! there’s more!

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Yup, this is pretty much my ideal for myself…

heavy breathing

Endless hours of staring

This is going on ALL the blogs holy shit.

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